Priorities

Good evening to my readers…
First of all, i would like to apologize for not updating my blog these past few days… Ive been really busy with my other responsibilities. And so, today since i have some time to spare, i would like to talk about the topic of my choice for tonight which is…

PRIORITIES.

Everyone has something to do everyday. Be it something considered important, something that should be done, something that wants to be done and something that felt like it should be done, its still something you feel like you have to do right?

And sometimes you’d feel like there’s not time at all to do all those things that you have to do.. So how do you decide which one among all the things you have to do first?

YOU SET YOUR PRIORITIES.

Make a list of things you have/want to complete for the day. Then ask yourself, which one is more important? If they’re all important, then which one has a deadline? Make a timetable or daily schedule to assist you as a reminder on the things you intend to do with the time.

With that, you’ll know which one can be done first, and which one can be put off to another time later on.

Priorities arent only for daily responsibilities, it can also be set for people. But i’ll blog about that some other time. Till then~ Ive got other priorities to attend to.

Hope this was informational.
Smile~

Taufiq

Keeping UP

Good evening to the readers out there~
How are you all doing today?
Fine i hope.

Today shall be blogging about something that i hope would be beneficial to you and at least makes a difference in your everyday life. To the better of course. Today’s title would be…

Keeping UP

Recently, since the new year, i have been undergoing quite alot of changes. To me its for the better but due to my own lack of self confidence that kicks in once in awhile, it makes me think over and over again if everything im doing is worth the while. Starting my day early, filling up the time with something productive to do. There’s always something to do and to change. Something somewhere to keep improving. Thats what ive been keeping myself preoccupied with. Routines, practices, exercises, chores, etc..

Some people are still having trouble on how to start doing something about themself, some are halfway and others are already on their way to the top. Some people find things easy, while others may find it impossible even with the thought of it.

Your goal in life is something that still remains uncertain for most people because they dont believe that they can do it. They say it, they’re doing it, seems like they’re gonna make it, then POOF. Everything falls apart.

What happened? How did it come down to this? IT WAS GOING SO WELL? HOW DID I FALL?

When you’re not strong enough or at least you THINK you dont have the strength to do something, chances are you WILL fall. Here’s what you should do. I know you’ve heard this so so many times. THINK POSITIVE. THINK POSITIVE. THINK POSITIVE. I bet you’re already sick of it. People know this, but do they really understand?

The problem with this is, everyone is thinking positive, but do they believe that it will be positive in the end?

Let me inform you that ANYONE can tell you what to do, but NO ONE can MAKE YOU DO IT unless YOU DECIDE to do it.

Have some faith in yourself. You dont have to be the best for someone else. The term BEST is subjected to those enquiring on it. Be at YOUR BEST.

Whatever happens, dont give up.
Its okay to fail, but dont stop trying.

Taufiq

Degrading

Good evening to the readers.
You know the routine~

So how’s everyone today? I hope things are going well. If not, then i hope by reading this, it at least takes your mind of some things so you can think about what im about to blog about now.

I feel like its the right time to talk about it while its still fresh in my head and my opinions on what i think about it because it sort of just hit me and trust me i didnt expect myself to respond this way. Although i shouldnt. Emotions can affect your decisions. It always does.

Now lets not delay and let me go straight to what i intend to deliver. As you see in the title…

DEGRADING.

In simple words…
Its the action of putting someone else down.

Why would someone do something like this?
Its easy. To make themselves look higher.

Will it make them any better than the person they degrade?
DEPENDS.

I dont know about you, but i think most people degrade and this happens every single day. Here’s some examples of things you may have heard before…

“I dont think he’s good enough, probably just all talk.”

“Look at the way that person is, they must think they’re so good at what they’re doing.”

“I can do so much better than her.”

“Oh, that guy seems kinda “low classed” to me.”

Etc..etc…etc…

It can be said that everyone is judgemental, but some people enjoy taking things so much further by degrading others for reasons even as simple as having fun without realizing the amount of impact it can cause to someone else.

Every word you say means something to someone else. And the way you say it implies how deep you want it to sink in…

Most of the DEGRADERS are usually among those privellaged ones living life in the easy lane, not knowing or actually understanding how hard life really is and they go on comparing themselves. Its okay to compare, because you want to see how far you’ve achieved. But like i said, some people cant get enough after feeling so self absorbed, they continue up to a point where it begins to disgust.

Everyone has their own strengths and weakness. I would like to point out here, comparison is okay. But the way you say it, and why you say it? Your intentions. Thats the difference.

Hope that gave you something to think about.
Till next time.

Do smile.

Taufiq

Before its too late

Good evening readers~
its me once more.
Day 10 into the new year.
Day 3 in this blog. ^^

Now lets start off with the usual…
Sit up straight, take a deep breath~
Then slowly exhale~
And yes, smile~

Alright~ now lets get things started. As you can see, today i’ll be blogging about the title of the post above which is…

“BEFORE ITS TOO LATE”

Im sure most of you have come across such sentence in your daily life at least once. What does this mean to you? Like every other word, phrases or sentences going around, different words bring different values to different people. Same word, different interpretations. It depends on the individual which way they want to see it.

In personal point of view, it could mean alot of things because i dont really judge things from one point of view.

It can be defined as an early thought or precaution by someone that there is a possibility they may not be able to complete or achieve something within a certain amount of time. Or
in simple words…

RUNNING OUT OF TIME.

Yes, time is something we all have.. At some moment, we have too much, while other times, we never seem to have enough? Why is that so? I mean come on… Why do the fun and happy times seem to end so much faster than the times we’re in sorrow or pain.. Do you know why?

Its because when you’re happy, you let things fly..

When you’re sad, you’re counting each and every moment for it to go by…

Shouldn’t it be the other way?
Or is it just in someone’s nature do oppose something for the satisfaction which can lead to dissatisfaction? Its Confusing.

We do things to satisfy our own personal needs. Sometimes we’re happy when we see someone happy. OR. when we see someone else fall to pieces.

You decide what makes you feel best about yourself because nobody should force you into doing something you dont want.

Here’s what you should be doing instead…

Let the sad times fly, and appreciate each and every happy moment you have because you never know when the next one is gonna come by. Appreciate and love the people around you regardless of who or what they are.. You give something and without asking, you’ll get something in return.

Before its too late. Do something about it.
Dont wait.

Taufiq

Making the first step

Good evening readers.
Lets start off with taking a deep breath~
Exhale slowly~
Now smile~

Did that make you feel any better? I like to think it does.

In a blink of an eye, we’re already in a new year. Since we’re still at the beginning of it, why not make it a start? For those of you out there still undecided on what you should do, still unsure about which path to take and what would it turn out to be, here’s a few questions you can ask yourself…

What do i want to do with my life in the future?

But dont just keep asking the same question over and over again. You have to decide. Sooner is better than later.

Im sure most people have used this phrase or at least heard of it before..
“When i Grow Up”

Little did we realize, we have already started thinking and more or less set a target, although it may still be unclear on what it is, with those words uttered or even the thought of it in your head, you know you want to do something about your life later on.

Its called a PLAN.

I just made this up but it somehow relates to the letters. I’d like to call it…

Personal Living Administration Navigation.

With a plan, trust me, you can do anything.

Q: Do you have a plan?
A :Everyone does.

Q : Whats the problem?
A : Carrying it out and Making it work.

Alright now that we’ve got the basics covered, lets get down to the explanations.

Have you ever had the urge to change into someone else? Wanting to be like someone successful and who you look up to? Then when you try to head into that direction, you come across alot of obstacles in the way which sometimes feels too hard you give up thinking that you cant and then you decide not to do it anymore. Which kills the whole mood. Especially when everyone is a critic. Yes. EVERYONE is a critic. And everyone is JUDGEMENTAL. Seriously. Even if you say you’re not then you’re lying. The moment you lay your eyes on something, you begin to ask questions about it or judge it from far, or for those others who have more confidence and feel like they have to say something about it, they are willing to give out open opinions regarding the matter. What can you do about it?

DECIDE ON SOMETHING
PUT YOUR MIND TO IT

and

DO WHATEVER IT TAKES to achieve your goal.

But that phrase doesnt end there. Alot of things happen, usually unwanted due to misinterpretation of it. Its a motivation drive. And sometimes drives us in the wrong direction.
Im not saying that its wrong, but it missed out one sentence which is…

USING THE RIGHT WAYS.

and when i said.. THE RIGHT WAYS, it doesnt mean that its right for you. Everyone has their own personal opinions on doing what seems “right”. One’s poison could be someone elses cure. Then what? I mean its obvious we cant satisfy everyone. So what you can do is compromise. The best is to look for a solution by come down to a fair agreement for everyone.

Thats for the beginning. I hope you learned something from what ive blogged about.
Realize that the first step is what starts everything.
It may be hard, but its worth a shot.

You’ve got nothing to lose. And always keep in mind that things will only get better.

Thanks for reading.
Do keep smiling.

Taufiq

Today is the start

Good evening to the fellow readers. Before i start giving out my OWN PERSONAL OPINIONS on ISSUES or TOPICS like any other blogger would do, Let me just start off by being thankful for still being alive. A prayer to those who didnt make it pass 2010. God bless their souls.

ALRIGHT. Now thats done…

Let me just give you a BRIEF description about my life on how it started and how it turned out the way it is today.

Well, im just like any other ordinary person who lives almost as average or a little less normal than others but everyone is different and the word normal is something very SUBJECTIVE. Something may be the best thing for one person, but it may be someone elses worse nightmare.

What can we actually do something about this?

People have needs, want to be heard and they want something done about what they call out for. Everyone wants their fair share and when that doesnt happen, they start looking for someone or something to blame on to make themselves feel better. I think its something called reverse psychology.

It can be a way to make things feel alright, or it could not. Most people tend to overlook and misinterpret the concept. You see something like this in your everyday life where someone brings down someone else and feels very happy about it without feeling remorseful or thinking if thats the right thing to be doing?

Bringing someone down to their low points and feeling satisfied about it after seeing someone suffer a loss doesnt make you someone better. To me, by using someone’s weaknesses to get them may be one way to take them down, but then again it all comes down to why you’re doing it and your intentions.

And with all that said, i guess i’ll just call it a day. I hope something like this does make a difference to you.

Ive got some other things to be done at the moment. Till next time. Apologies if i offended anyone with this. My intentions are to wake people up and realize that we dont have all the time we think we have. It may end in a long time, or it could end now.

Smile.

Taufiq